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YOU!!!!!!!!

2009-12-31T01:51:00.000-08:00

Through the pain and suffering that i have been feeling, the pain hurts more day by day...where were your promises?

Though humanity and society has ridiculed over the concept of righteous and beliefs what is it that supersedes the others? Is it the religion, colour, race, or even status? What is it that we depict as morality, the knowledge that we have gained the lesson that we have learnt and the ideals that we have been thought to believe? Is it not all made by Man. Is Man not the cause to how and what we have become? Judgemental, we judge others on our own behalf and yet we do not see the clear picture, are we all not the same? Are we all not Human. On the known fact of this we still separate ourselves into partitions, religions, groups, and outcasts but are we not all made from the same flesh and blood. What is it that makes us different is the thought and mind that we have, it is our soul. God a greater being perhaps if it does exists did not made us all to hate each other, it is us ourselves that creates our own anger and frustration. It is said that God sent messengers to acknowledge us what is to be and what is not, what is right and what is wrong, but what right or knowledge have we as mere Human to emphasize does teachings to generalize our own beliefs and call it a religion. All is made equal and all is made fair, and in this context does it not describe that we are all one and the same? Are we all not Human in which live on the same land, breathing in the same air, drinking the same water and even eating the same food in which the land has provided. Why we are so determined that because of religion that we are separated, that each religion supersedes the rest. Who determined that any one religion is THE religion? Is it not us Man that choose it for ourselves? And because we did are we not contradicting the wish of our creators. We were created to be equals and yet we divided ourselves, where is the equality in that?
CHANGE is what must be done and change is what must be called for, but in the ideas of change society is not willing to accept. Clouded by their own judgement and belief, realizing that time is coming to an end and yet they do not want to accept it. If we are to struggle in this overseeing fight for survival how many will be lost? How many will be sacrificed for this ridiculous argument to continue? Will it come to a time when civilizations ceased to exist then only we are accepted to change? By then humanity will be too late, if we are to change we are to do it now. Change the mindset, change the habits and break down the barrier, for we are all one and the same, we are all HUMAN.
What can we achieve by struggling and fighting amongst ourselves? How many more casualties before we are willing to accept that the world needs a Change. Everyone is equal and everyone has their own rights to live, but if we as society crippled that then there will no longer be a future for all of us.
If it is a sin for us to be human than it is a sin for us to even be living, for what good is there in us living as human beings if all we create are misfortune and grief. All that man creates leads to destruction whether we like it or not it will be there and it will haunt us for the rest of our lives. There is nothing but dust at the end of the road and so be it, let this life end so another could begin, let me be the sacrificial lamb in which this life of man could not comprehend, for it is with these hands that you will see. See the world as it is and not as how u wants it to be. The world in its essence is not perfect, neither of us is perfect. Perfection is a word created in the absence of imperfection

The ambiguaity of life...

2009-11-30T01:39:00.000-08:00

Have you ever wondered what it would be like if life turns another round? What could or may not have happened, whether if you were given a second chance that you could make things better? Well the thought of it constantly creates a disembodied doubt of what may or may not become.

There is always too much things going on and the question always lies in whether or not does the trust you have is strong, in any kind of situation we may under come Trust is a factor that is the only reason we believe upon.

No matter what is the situation, the trust is the main reason in all things to come and is the foundation of every relationship.

Fever Season

2009-11-17T20:59:00.000-08:00

OMG!!! look at all the amount of sick ppl lately....all also getting sick including me but luckily today im 90% cured, as the weather has been a total havoc its easy to see why we keep on falling sick =(

Breaking The ICE

2009-11-12T04:59:00.000-08:00

Well a few nights ago a friend of mine ask me, how can he turn over a new leaf and start being not arrogant. He told me that it is just about time that he started to change himself because looking back it is the stepping stone that he could never step. In order to do this it's not gonna be easy as it is difficult to change yourself as making a person to act or behave a certain way in a blink of an eye is just impossible.

So basically 3 simple rules in changing your attitude is by asking yourself, why do you want to change? For who's sake are you changing for? and What do you hope to achieve in changing yourself?

Just ask yourself these question and see if its worth it.

Sorry seems to be the hardest word

2009-11-08T00:46:00.000-08:00

I just don't know how to explain it but its always the hardest word to say when it comes to guys and this word is "Sorry". Countless times have i seen my friends ended up in an argument with their friends, family and even girlfriends but what there are always unwilling to admit is that they are at fault and that they should apologize.

Call it EGO, or PRIDE but if your wrong than you just have to admit it. What can you get by being arrogant? NOTHING... So to round it of it is better to just admit that your wrong if you are and put aside the differences, and making up is better than pro-longing the argument. Honestly, would you want to be enemies forever?

Like a friend of my yesterday, fought with his so called GF and he ended up getting kick out of the house. As egoistic as he may be he realize that what he said was wrong but its just a lil to late. Thats why guys, better think before you speak or else your gonna end up getting kicked out too.

Here's a song that will make guys feel more sorrowful =)

A picture tells a thousand words.

2009-11-01T03:26:00.000-08:00

What if's?

2009-11-01T03:09:00.000-08:00

The question of the century is always gonna be the " What if?" and it always hits you in the head what if its too late or too early. The simplest thing that we always look at always seems so complicated and yet we don't know if things are gonna be okay.

No matter what we do in life we're always unsure about it and it makes us feel vulnerable, as such we tend to keep it inside instead. Okay don't be scared, here is a song that makes me feel better =)

2009-10-25T23:24:00.000-07:00

The feelings i have inside is always ice cold and lately its been hard but thanks to this song i feel relaxed and much better.

All American Rejects - It Ends Tonight

Your sudleties
They strangle me
I can't explain myself at all.
And all the wants
And all the needs
All I don't want to need at all.

The walls start breathing
My mind's unweaving
Maybe it's best you leave me alone.
A weight is lifted
On this evening
I give the final blow.

When darkness turns to light,
It ends tonight
It ends tonight.

A falling star
Least I fall alone.
I can't explain what you can't explain.
Your finding things that you didn't know
I look at you with such disdain

The walls start breathing
My mind's unweaving
Maybe it's best you leave me alone.
A weight is lifted
On this evening
I give the final blow.

[Chorus]
When darkness turns to light
It ends tonight,
It ends tonight.
Just a little and
Sorry won't make this right
It's too late to fight
It ends tonight,
It ends tonight.

Now I'm on my own side
It's better than being on your side
It's my fault when your blind
It's better than I see it through your eyes
All these thoughts locked inside
Now you're the first to know

When darkness turns to light,
It ends tonight,
It ends tonight.
Just a little insight won't make this right,
It's too late to fight,
It ends tonight,
It ends when darkness turns to light
It ends tonight
It ends tonight, just a little insight
Won't make this right, it's too late to fight
It ends tonight,
It ends tonight,
Tonight,
Insight,
When darkness turns to light it ends tonight

Wonder GUYS!!!

2009-10-18T03:31:00.000-07:00

A SOLUTE to these guys who sacrifice their manly hood to become the most AWESOME WONDER GUYS =)

Must Watch For EVERYONE ITS "E" rated!!!

2009-10-18T02:52:00.000-07:00

Here i found a clip that everyone will like =p have fun and watch.....

P/S : Prepare a vomit bag and laughter medication. (content is very funny)

How to know if SHE is Interested.

2009-10-18T02:40:00.000-07:00

Well while looking at the videos again i think this one could really help a lot of guys that are uncertain out there, this also goes for my friend...you know, the one who is always uncertain and wonders a lot. =p

How to attract a women?

2009-10-18T02:36:00.000-07:00

Haha, was you-tubing and saw some of these dating tips video that was quite hilarious, but we all know about it but seldom do.

Fashion sense.

2009-10-18T00:13:00.000-07:00

Well, have you walk on the streets and just saw the most horrible dressing that a person has ever worn? Just staring at them you'll be like OMG!!!! I've just seen one of the most weirdest way a person can dress.

Hahaha, well this is just apart of the humorous dressing but its all good and fun =)

So now let me show you what I want to look like in a proper dressing manner and a picture that i think the dress just look AWESOMEEEEE!!!

The Sophisticated look =)

This is just so Pretty...droollssss....

So smart =)

Does it ever makes you wonder?

2009-10-17T23:37:00.000-07:00

Haven't you ever wondered sometimes how small and petite we are in this universe? well its definite that we are super duper tiny and there is a lot of things out there.

Well surely we wonder every time, like, what should we do tonight? What should i get for breakfast? and all much more.

I have a friend who cant stop wondering of reasons why a girl still haven't replied him the whole day and he was like nervous and kept thinking about it the whole entire time. All along until we went for a drink and he seems slightly cool down, but you can still see it in his face that he stills wonders.

So is he interested in her or not? I don't wanna judge. =p

Are you a mug with women?

2009-10-17T04:26:00.000-07:00

Hi there, it’s me again and upon doing tons of readings I’ve stumbled on this Quiz that is very interesting and that might help all the GUYS out there to understand themselves a little better, Cold-hearted Romeo or gullible fool... Which are you? Keep tabs on the scores that

you accumulate and see where you stand.

1. How long does your relationship last?

a) 1 night (your choice). (0 points)

b) 1 night (her choice). (8 points)

c) 1 to 3 months. (6 points)

d) 4 to 6 months. (10 points)

e) More than a year. (2 points)

2. ``

a) Briskly suggest that “we’ll just split this down the middle” and plonk your half of the cash on the table. (2)

b) A bit of to-ing and fro-ing before you pay – on the assurance that “she can get it next time”. (4)

c) Fold the second she strokes your calf with her foot and says,”thanks for the paying” and cough up for the lot before going home alone. (6)

d) Eagerly intercept the waiter so you can settle up before she has a chance to offer, while leaving an ostentatiously large tip. (10)

3. Have you ever got the first strike in and dumped by someone before they dumped you?

a) Yes. (10)

b) No. (0)

4. How do you treat your friends when you’ve got a girlfriend?

a) The same. (0)

b) With a sense of embarrassment and awkwardness. (4)

c) With a mixture of disdain and pity for people who are single, throwing bins at each other on the way home, having meaningless casual sex, etc. (6)

d) As a distant, hazy memory of the old, and take her as your world. (10)

5. Have you ever done any of the following? (2 points each)

a) Cried after sex.

b) Paid for her to go on a holiday with her friends.

c) Waited around outside a club until 3am in your car.

d) Lent her upwards of RM 1,000.

e) Failed to get repaid a sum of money upwards of RM 1,000.

6. How do her friends treat you?

a) With huge waves of maternal sympathy, often extending to phoning you up behind your girlfriends, warning you that “you’ve been taken for a ride”. (10)

b) With callous indifference, safe in the knowledge that some other sucker will be along to fund her “Princess” lifestyle. (8)

c) With barely concealed sexual aggression. (0)

d) With harmless flirting which might-if you were both a bit tanked up- possibly spill into something more. (2)

7. Have you ever been jilted out of a marriage or engagement?

a) Yes. (10)

b) No. (0)

8. Does she ever do any of the following? (2 points each)

a) Sit there channel-surfing through a variety of reality shows – while you’re talking to her.

b) Ask whether you’d pay for her to have a boob job.

c) Leave a list lying around of her “top five footballers to hunt down”.

d) Sit alone at home all day because “I just couldn’t be bothered going to work”.

e) Clear your wallet, leaving an IOU written on a forever friend Post-It in pink ink, with big hearts over the letter “I”.

9. It’s a week after you first slept together. How are you behaving?

a) E-mailing her every few days to keep things light-heartedly and planning to hook up with her at some point on Saturday when you’re both out with your friends. (0)

b) Watching your productivity go off as you waste your working days arranging elaborate dates. (4)

c) Frenziedly ploughing through her Facebook/MySpace/Friendster accounts, analysing harmless comments from other men like you or something. (6)

d) Turning up at her work to surprise her. The surprise being that you’ve bought her some really nice stuff that she likes. (10)

10. How do you respond to separation?

a) Down a single malt whisky while smiling wryly out the window and muttering something about “road kill on the way to the altar”. (0)

b) Get up on the roof of Toys “R” Us, unveiling a sheet with a love letter to your ex scrawled on it. (10)

c) Build a bonfire of all her stuff, which quickly rages out of control and inadvertently torches your shed. (8)

d) Go out and totally get drunken two days in a row. (2)

e) As above, but for the next two months until your mum has to step in and look after you. (4)

So total it up and see what you get based on the results below:

0-40

While you might be a bit callous, you’re not at risk of making a prat of yourself. Just check that you’re not letting good stuff slip away by being a bit to blasé about these things.

41-60

You’ve got a healthy attitude, although you could be outfoxed by a particularly hot girl. Keep an eye on yourself.

61-80

This is risky territory. In all likelihood, even well-meaning girls who like you are going to be put off by your behaviour. Just calm everything down a few notches, don’t be so eager, and don’t cave into everything she asks for.

81+

You sound like you’ve got a lot of issues to resolve about relationships. Unless you were seriously abandoned as a child, this is no way for anyone to be behaving. Take emergency steps- perhaps even seek professional help...

Well I hope that this quiz was fun and maybe help all you guys out there J till next time I’m signing out.

Guy Meets Girl.

2009-10-17T04:24:00.000-07:00

Well to all guys out there, surely most of you have encountered a lot of problems when meeting someone new and especially if that someone appears to be a hot and beautiful woman. Well don’t be sad about it as this topic will slightly give you some pointers or even methods that you may or may have not done before.

Are you one of those people that show glances to ladies hoping that they’ll pick up on your signs or signals telling them that you want to know them? Here’s a newsflash, most time girls don’t ever bother if you do that. So here are some ways that might help you to just go to her and ask her:

Try giving a blunt introduction, where you just tell her your name and from there onwards your chance is as good as fifty-fifty.

Do your best, because most girls don’t like quitters so do not easily give up. As long as you’ve tried she’ll know that you put on an effort despite the chances.

Be yourself, this is important as girls can sense if you’re not being yourself. This is because a common mistake that men make when going out with a girl is being too serious, so loosen up.

Do not cheat, if you have intent to lie or hurt her without much thought then that would be the end of you, as girls can be very notorious in a grudge.

Play it straight, try to work on getting the environment right and things will be on an easy street for you before you even realise it.

Originality, women can sense it if you’re faking and it will make the situation very awkward. So just talk about what you know and its okay to say “I don’t know”, on any given topic.

Confidence, believe in yourself and you will develop a confident approach.

First contact, don’t think that you just have one chance to impress her, women usually judge a man in overall terms- his appearance, the way he carries himself, the way he communicates, his thoughtfulness and so on. Just be friendly and smile =)

Well that’s all for today’s topic and I hope that it will help you in any way possible. Give yourself some time. You might not see the results instantly, but keep it up as you can only get better with time.

Haloooo

2009-10-17T04:22:00.000-07:00

Hey, there this is my new blog and will be continue writing for all to see =))